All things marriage

Looking for someone who:

1. Respects me and my family
2. Can cook when I'm tired
3. Knows the difference between "I'm fine" and "I'm NOT fine"
   That's all. Simple 😇

Is anyone here actually serious, or is this just a circus?

Maybe one day...

I see many profiles asking for 'serious people,' yet the standards often stop at the surface.
My journey didn't give me the luxury of focusing on being 'handsome' or perfectly put together. My journey started at 14, balancing studies with hard labor to support my family. My youth wasn't spent in front of a mirror; it was spent in the scorching heat, the freezing cold, and the pouring rain, working to ensure the people I love were taken care of.
If you want to see my capacity to love, protect, and care, don't look at a filtered photo—look at my struggle. Look at my work ethic. I am still learning, still building, and still striving to give my future family the beautiful life they deserve.
If you are looking for superficial perfection, please swipe by. But if you are looking for a man of substance, loyalty, and real-world strength, I am right here.

"Stop waiting for people to save you. Be the person who chooses yourself every single day."

I think men charts alot of women at the same time because when someone texts they aren't coming back again. How are we going to marry? Men please have mercy

https://youtu.be/AUFsBco_CF0?si=79ZXdX2GLsiOS449

I know me saying this might offend some of you. But this is just my opinion. Most men who want housewives, they say that working women are not capable of raising good children instilled with Islamic values. In this country, so many men divorce housewives, leaving them to start life from square one. These women, even while working, have raised children who have more Islamic values than the kids with both parents and a housewife mother. Housewives over here have raised children who are mollycoddled , spoiled, doesnt respect others etc.. I know a woman who wears skin tight clothes after her husband left her, she started smoking. I once babysat her 8 year old son. I braced myself for a chaotic babysitting session..but ya rabbi, i didn't have to tell the kid to pray, he himself got up and did prayer! His mum left home after telling me to take away his tablet after an hour. I had to tell him only once. Maasha Allah. Day by day I noticed his mum has bad features , but she hides her cigarette from him, her struggles and all, but raised the child as a proper muslim. Kid has no idea that his mum smokes or other things about her. And wants to grow up to be an imaam, at that tender age.

So this question is inspired by the dude called truth

Would you marry someone who had committed zina in the past?

My stance is it it was from a long time ago and they have repented and not done it again... and had all the qualities I am looking for yes i would marry them.. even though I havent done zina myself

"Indeed, Allah loves those who constantly repent and loves those who purify themselves."

Also the story of the prostitute who saw a dog panting with thirst and took off her shoe and filled it with water to give the dog a drink- Allah forgave her

If Allah can forgive... who are we to judge?