All things marriage

I feel like telling this to others because I think it is worth mentioning.

Today a man requested to chat with me.

I have stated in my social profile that I am not looking for an interracial relationship.

But this man, a man who isn't Malaysian, texted me. He gave salam. I checked his profile. Seem respectful. I checked his interraction with other people... respectful. But I am not keen on international relationship.

So I left it there for few hours. Something just told me to accept the chat, so I listened to my instinct and accepted his request to chest.

His first text was clear. Introduced himself, where he is from, his intention. He said he's only here for marriage only. And asked if I am open for a relationship. In the first text. He could be lying, yes. It could be his tactic, sure, but the vibe I was getting was good.

But I am still not looking for international marriage.

So I replied. Told him my first name. Told him I am not interested in interracial marriage in particular. Thanked him for reaching out and for being respectful. Wished him all the best.

And he calmly accepted and thanked me for the reply.

The interaction was short but calming. Somehow.

And I just want to put it out there. If you're reading, you know who you are. I appreciate how graceful you are. Thank you. I sincerely hope you find your happiness.

It was a long day for me today. This interaction, despite not leading anywhere, reminded me to say Alhamdulillah 💐

Hello 😬

what’s the 3 things you notice in your partner one 1st meetup.

Men (and women) should want to be better for their partner.

Everyone has flaws- being mindful of your own allows you to improve, and makes it easier to forgive other people's. You also are less likely to have impossible standards, and to be happier with the bonuses.

There are people here that think they're a great catch, simply for existing- it's an awful attitude to have, and actually makes you the worst kind of husband/wife.

People should be sincere and chase sincerity always- way better ultimately than most other things on a character checklist.

🌿 True wealth is not measured by how much we own, but by the barakah (blessings) that Allah places in what He provides. We ask Allah to bless our earnings, make our income halal, sufficient, and beneficial, and grant us financial independence through His mercy. May every penny we earn become a source of goodness for us, our families, and those in need.

May Allah open the doors of halal sustenance, increase us in barakah, protect us from hardship, and make us among the grateful. Ameen. 🤲

"May Allah grant you financial independence. May He bless your income with endless barakah. Ameen."

Miss of communication
Is the most red flag I’ve seen here
We must change our approach to know each other
Hi , how are you & where are you from … etc is the ridiculous way to get engaged 🤦🏻

Is colour and race mattar ?

We don’t have to be perfect. We just have to be loyal when it’s hard.

                              #Arxi

Ya Allah, let my future spouse stop swiping when they get to my profile.