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🗣️🗣️❤️✔️Google help me find a way out I don't want my future husband to limit himself to control himself no longer commenting in the comment section of his social media because he doesn't want me to be offended. I want him to live a normal, natural life like he was when he didn't know me. because there is a risk if we separate and are not destined to be together I don't want to be seen as detrimental to his life as if I am exercising control. please explain my problem in the Islamic version.🙏🤲🕋
✨✨✨Your desire for your partner to maintain his authentic self and your concern about being perceived as overly controlling highlights your care for his dignity and independence. Communicating these feelings openly will establish mutual trust and prevent future resentment.
An Islamic perspective offers a balanced way to view this situation:
Authenticity and Mutual Trust: Islamic teachings emphasize that marriage should be a source of tranquility, love, and mercy (Quran 30:21). Spouses are encouraged to build trust and allow each other comfort and natural expression, rather than enforcing rigid, unnecessary restrictions.
The Concept of Shura (Consultation): Rather than one person unilaterally deciding what the other should do, couples are encouraged to practice Shura, which means making decisions through open, mutual communication.
Protection of Reputation (Husn al-Zann): Islam highly values good thoughts and intentions. You want to avoid any environment where you are misunderstood or thought to be oppressive. Being clear and transparent about your boundaries—and encouraging him to do the same—guards against misunderstandings in your community.
I'm here to understand what women want, regardless of age, background, or stage of life. Whether it's attraction, stability, character, ambition, kindness, or something else entirely, I'm genuinely curious to learn. No judgment, just an open-minded conversation about what women value and hope for in a partner. 😊
There is no such thing as perfect. There is 80%, there is 90%, 60%, 55% - but there is no 100%.
Honest question: Have any couples here successfully met on this app and later got married? I'd love to know your experience.👩❤️💋👨👫
Assalamualaikum
Just want to know is using an AI for summarizing and clarity for bio is a red flag 🚩
Need to know the female perspective
Feedback is highly appreciated 👍🏼
guys i need ur opinion
He is 6ft, good muslim, have higher education than me, responsible, sweet man, provider man
But i am not sure about his looks, but i think he is good, he look good just need some glow up😭😭
Should i continue talking, or pass?😭😭😭😭😭
