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Salaams all. Here's just some Food for thought:
Marriage is often seen as "his and her roles". Which, personally, I don't entirely agree on (though yes some things are more masculine and some more feminine) however I see it as a project you build on together.
compare it to something like gardening for example. you sew the seeds, you water it and watch it grow. The first few seasons may not do great because the plant is learning what it needs to be, what it could become. It takes time, patience, even space sometimes. Sometimes it needs pruning - going back to the start, and tweaking things for it to fulfil it's potential and sometimes you just gotta get rid of the dead leaves to allow it to flourish. But over time and with all the right tools, the right conditions, the plant will have embedded it's roots, deepinto the soil and it becomes stable.
Because it's been nurtured it now feels safe and confident to grow into everything it was meant to be and more. It's flowers bloom, its fruits are bountiful and there is plenty of lt to share. Those around you will feed from it too and learn from it. The respect, kindness and love for each other.
So I believe when we find our person we should be bold and dive in - give it every thing you have to give. because how can you reap the rewards if you only sew half the seeds??!?
A single, widow, divorced seeking for marriage from United Arab Emirates, Punjabi, Pathan, Pakistan (age 25 to 35)
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