All things marriage

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I don’t understand why being born or raised in the UK is such an important requirement for some people. If someone is settled here, has built a good life, is kind, attractive, and can be a supportive life partner, that should matter far more than where they were born or grew up. Everyone deserves to be judged on their character and values, not their place of birth.

Asc qoftaydii wan helay lkn hadal xgii laga bilabi laha dhagax laygaga dhigay appkan ayan islaha
Ma gudbenimada isaga babiyo wlhi wanka sii qadayba

He is a Dentist ☺️

I wish Jamaa was more engaging for normal posts. Jamaa unfortunately gives more screentime to controversial posts than normal posts. If it wasn't so bad people would have been talking more about science, philosophy, arts, war, economics, etc but no Jamaa likes controversial posts and people have learned this too so they post controversial things related to marriage and relationship for engagement. It's a toxic engagement cycle. I left Muzz many months ago hoping I'd continue on Jamaa just to talk to people about life and stuffs but damn this place is full of toxic people who have been unsuccessful in relationship and marriages. Well mine isn't better but I don't indulge myself too much into marriage and relationships like it the only thing to talk about in life. I don't know why some people on this app are so obsessively online, talking about marriages and relationships like there's nothing else to do in life. I legit think most of these people are just ***** and frustrated. And some of those people on this app are so online like it's the only social media media app on their phone. They spend their whole day on this app trying to be the No.1 content creator. They've made a cult following here, if you criticise them then their whole followers will jump on you. I mean come on peoole there's a whole world outside this app. And life isn't all about marriages and relationships. Suppose marriage and children isn't written on your fate so what will you do in life? Will you not continue to live your life, find a hobby and busy yourself with more important things in life? Or will you become a toxic and frustrated person online hating on the opposite gender? This is not how life is meant to be. You'll become a reflection of your negative thoughts. Distract yourself from those things and enjoy your life doing something important. Life isn't about marriages it's about worshiping Allah. And being good to other people is part of worshiping Allah. Please find a hobby people. Read books, watch podcast, start painting or gardening, etc. Don't waste your precious time online on foolish things.
P.S. This post isn't about any specific individual but if you do fall into this category please touch some grass(Like real grass in park not metaphor)

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Hey❤️

Dubai

Okay sisters and brothers I need some advice..

So I matched with someone, we got on great, he was ticking all the boxes with me especially the fact that he said he wants my wali to be present when we do meet.

However, since we’ve been talking (barely even been a week yet) maybe I’m overthinking but he comes out with weird statements such as I don’t like the fact that you’re going to certain places that look secluded. Firstly, I wasn’t at a secluded place I’m not stupid to do so. Then we didn’t speak for the whole day, the moment I posted a selfie of myself he messages me asking where I’m going.

Am I bugging out? Or should I say goodbye? Cause I’m sorry, I’m all for a protective man but not a possessive one!

Any advice would be greatly appreciated guys. I’m on the verge of absolutely giving up with marriage.