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Hello why no one here searching for real relationship or get married 🤔🤔

I will preface this by explicitly stating in no way shape or form am I defending or justifying the actions of any of those involved in the discord g.c. because I know some people will manipulate my words to take away from my message.
No one's denying that whatever happened between these men in the GCs is unequivocally wrong. But for most of these women to take it as an opportunity to come out and generalise men and describe them in negative ways, men are this and that when the rest of us had nothing to do with this. I usually don't say anything at all on here because I try and be very careful what I say, adding up sins is very easy with the tongue and what you type. Just because these group of men did some wrong, it now justifies and opens the door for most of these women and some men to mock, insult, humiliate and degrade them does not help their cause. Yes these men did that, but how are you any different if you're using the same kind of rhetoric back at them. And some wishing hell upon them, for them to burn in hell? Where does this level of arrogance come from to wish hell upon someone? Ask yourselves sincerely those of you who think it's okay to take the moral high ground and talk with a sense of haughtiness and self righteousness, if all of your skeletons in the closet came out, all your book of deeds and your sins publicly displayed for the world to see would you talk with this level of arrogance some of you are talking, like your angels and you have no deficiencies and shortcomings yourself and a long list of sins behind your back. Allah's forgiveness, mercy and repentance is not in your hands, Allah forgave a man who killed a 100 people, A HUNDRED, who are you to come and decide whether some deserves heaven or hell? My point is to say yes enjoin what is good and forbid what is evil, speak out against it, but do so in a manner appropriate in an islamic framework. Words can be harmful and beneficial, you may take people out of the fold of islam, distance them from the religion, and push them further away or your words may even cause someone to take a sincere step to improve, give them hope and invite them to forgiveness, repentance and the mercy of Allah. This is first and foremost advise to myself. May Allah allow me to act upon what I have said and protect me from advising with good and not acting up on it and protect me from all forms of hypocrisy. May Allah guide all of us to the straight path and keep us steadfast upon his religion.

وَلَا تَسْتَوِي ٱلْحَسَنَةُ وَلَا ٱلسَّيِّئَةُ ۚ ٱدْفَعْ بِٱلَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا ٱلَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُۥ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُۥ وَلِيٌّ حَمِيمٌ
Translation:
“Good and evil cannot be equal. Respond to evil with what is best, then the one you are in enmity with will become as if he were a close friend.”

ٱدْفَعْ بِٱلَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ ٱلسَّيِّئَةَ ۚ نَحْنُ أَعْلَمُ بِمَا يَصِفُونَ
Translation:
“Respond to evil with what is best. We know well what they claim.”

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Praise and blame comes and goes. Rest like a giant tree in the midst of the moon. 🌙 🌕 🌖

A woman having a great relationship with her father is always a plus for me

Not hard to find. Just hard to forget.