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Hi everyone

So true!! Signs that every lady must look out for!

When the Rain Falls on the Leopard, Does It Wash Off Its Spots? 🐆☔

You swipe. You match. You hope the rain of your love, your patience, your mercy will change them.
But a leopard's spots don't wash off.
A liar's tongue doesn't rinse clean.
A player's habits don't dissolve in du'a.
A disrespectful heart doesn't soften with a few good morning texts.

The Prophet ﷺ said: "The best of you are those who are best to their families." (Tirmidhi)

Notice: not "the best of you are those who try to fix broken people."
Yes, people change, but only if they want to. Your love is not bleach. And their spots are not your fault.
So when you see a pattern, believe it. When you spot a red flag, don't wait for rain to wash it away. It won't.
Save your mercy for someone who doesn't need a shower to become decent.

May Allah grant us clarity before heartbreak, and spouses whose spots are only beauty marks. 🤲

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Salaams, could anyone share what Pure Matrimony is like?

Hello

Can a Muslim woman have a successful artistic career (with exhibitions, travel, recognition) and be a good wife?

I've spoken with several men with marriage in mind, and when I bring up my desire to pursue my art career (studies, exhibitions, travel to show my work), I've received answers that have left me thinking.

Some have told me: "it depends on what kind of art you do and whether you do it at home." Others have been more blunt: "I wouldn't handle it well, because a woman who travels or has success outside the home stops admiring her husband and starts comparing." I've even heard that "if a woman is successful, she won't have time left for the house and children."

These responses have made me wonder: is a woman's success really a threat to marriage? Can't a husband be proud that his wife is a recognized artist? Is female art only valid if it's done at home, in secret, with no one seeing it?

I understand there are cultural and personal differences. But I also know that Islam teaches us that knowledge, creativity, and halal work are virtues for both men and women. Khadija (ra) was a successful businesswoman who traveled with caravans, and she was the first wife of the Prophet (saw). He wasn't threatened by her success. On the contrary, he admired and supported her.

I'm not saying that all women need to have a career, nor that all men must accept it. But I do believe we need to speak clearly from the start. If a woman has an artistic vocation that fulfills her, and a man cannot support her because he fears losing his role or because he believes she won't have time for the home, then perhaps they are not compatible.

It's not about who is right. It's about finding someone who complements your life, not limits it.

I'd like to hear your thoughts, especially from women with professional or artistic aspirations: how have you handled this with potential spouses? And for the men: do you believe it's possible to have a successful wife outside the home without the marriage suffering?

ImNew here,,Hello my name is Gul and this august I'm gonna be 26,
Still aside and way to complete my Iman , looking for healthy marriage life

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Time check ⏰ 7 40pm I’m to sleepy but need 1 more prayer 🙏🏻 🥱