All things marriage

My biggest fear is marrying someone who says "Mein Aesa Hi Hon, Tumhein Adjust Karna Paray Ga" when respect is the only thing I am asking for..😞

A random married life question... 😄🚗

Today I was at the Road Transport Department (JPJ), and it got me wondering. There were plenty of husbands and wives there sorting out vehicle registrations and licences.
So here's my question for the married couples, after you got married, who usually takes care of your vehicle registration, road tax, insurance renewals, and all the car paperwork? Is it mostly the husband, the wife, or do you both share the responsibility? 🤝😊
I'm genuinely curious to hear how different couples divide these little real life responsibilities.

I had posted a while ago about mixed culture marriage and I had a brother who had the audacity to privately message me and state his assumed opinion.

After he said what he said which was him assuming that I am not proud of my own “heritage”??? “ when I never once said that on the post.

I said to him “Oh u wanted to comment on what I posted. Why didn't u comment on the post lol?” And i proceeded to elaborate stating to him that I never said I wasn’t proud of my heritage. Then asked him why is he assuming?

Why would you go out your way to text me your assumptions and offend me ??If your closed minded to mixed cultural marriage that’s ur opinion and that’s a you problem but don’t come text me to try argue with me cause mind u you could have just commented ur opinion.

The Prophet ﷺ raised balanced men who understood that leadership is about accountability, protection, and humility and not ego and control. Elevating women never made these men insecure.

Today, however, some men mistake dominance for leadership, fearing women who are educated and emotionally aware. They expect submission without providing safety, obedience without kindness, and loyalty without maturity.

In contrast, the Prophet ﷺ never humiliated women to demand respect. He earned devotion through exceptional character, creating a household that nurtured some of history's strongest women.

Genuine question for the sisters. 😊

When a man likes your profile or sends you a marriage proposal, do you usually accept the request first and get to know him before deciding, or do you decide based only on his profile?

What makes you accept or reject a request?

Also, what qualities are most important to you in a potential husband? For example:
• Strong Deen (not just Jumu'ah, but regular prayers and practicing Islam)
• A good balance between Deen and Dunya
• Good character and respectful behaviour
• Stable income and financial responsibility
• Own house or living arrangements
• Family values
• Education or career
• Age, location, lifestyle, etc.

I'd love to understand what matters most and how you make your decision. Please share your honest thoughts respectfully. JazakAllah Khair.

Why some women do want to marry non-Muslim men?

Brother Gabriel Al Romani explains it perfectly in this video.

Women don't want to follow Allah swt and His Messenger, but their own desires. And therefore they need someone who won't make them accountable.

Real men are the enforcers of the Shariah, not women pleasers by disobeying Allah swt and His Messenger.

You better understand why most of inhabitants of Jahannam are women.

Brothers: hold the line. And please Allah swt, not anyone else.

https://youtu.be/P1O98fD0eTY?si=v4ttQT5b6ysTnrTr

I need a God fearing and dedicated and good in her deen and you also want an halal relationship that will lead to something please DM. Am tired of knowing yourself finish and the next thing is asking of money 💰💰💰... please only for the serious one's

Once you go black
Then 🖤

Stop stressing, girl. Your heart is good, your intentions are pure, and the universe has your back. Everything is going to work out just fine.

Asalamualikum to everyone.

Who is actually looking for only salary ?