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From Marriage Talks to “I’m Not Feeling It”: My Muzz Experience Everyone Should Read

Hi Muzz community,

I wanted to share my recent experience on Muzz—not to discourage anyone from using the app, but to remind everyone to be cautious and protect their emotions.

I matched with someone, and we connected really well. Our conversations flowed naturally, and we found each other genuinely interesting. Soon after, he asked for my Instagram. I was hesitant because I prefer keeping conversations on Muzz initially, but he said he had trouble hearing voice messages properly on the app, so I agreed.

He had already told me that he had been engaged previously and that the wedding had been called off by the bride’s family after seven months. I respected his honesty and didn’t see it as an issue.

As we kept talking, he asked for my WhatsApp number. Again, I was hesitant, but by then everything felt genuine, so I shared it.

From the beginning, he repeatedly told me he was on Muzz with the intention of getting married. I even asked him several times to think carefully and meet other people if he wasn’t completely sure. Every time, he reassured me that he didn’t want to invest his time in anyone else and that he was certain about pursuing this.

He also mentioned that he would regularly travel to Pune just to meet me.

As time passed, we started discussing where we could meet. That’s when he invited me to his housewarming party. I initially declined because I wasn’t comfortable. He insisted, saying things like, “This is an important milestone in my life, and I want the people closest to me there. I want to introduce you to my friends.”

Eventually, I agreed. However, my exam schedule fell during that week, so I had to cancel.

Later, I asked him why he had cancelled the housewarming altogether. His response was, “Everyone has already been to my place once or twice, so there wasn’t really a need for a party.”

That left me wondering whether the party had ever really been the reason for the invitation.

Some time later, when we discussed meeting again, he checked flight prices and commented on how expensive they were. He then suggested that I come to his place instead. I wasn’t comfortable with that and told him it would be better if he visited me. I even offered to cover his travel expenses. He agreed and said he would apply for leave the next day.

The very next morning, everything changed.

He messaged me saying, “I’m not feeling anything in this relationship. I’m not being myself.”

When I asked what had changed overnight, he said, “It’s only been a month since my wedding was called off.”

I completely understand that heartbreak takes time to heal, and there’s nothing wrong with realizing you’re not emotionally ready. But what I struggle to understand is this:

If you knew you were still processing such a major life event, why actively pursue someone? Why repeatedly reassure them about marriage? Why ask them to move off the app, share personal contact details, make future plans, and build expectations if you weren’t emotionally available?

To anyone using Muzz: please take your time. Don’t feel pressured to move conversations to Instagram or WhatsApp too quickly, and don’t let words outweigh actions.

If you’re still healing from a previous relationship or engagement, it’s okay to take time for yourself. But please don’t unintentionally involve someone else and give false hopes before you’re truly ready.

May Allah guide us all to spouses who are sincere, emotionally mature, and honest with both themselves and others. Ameen.

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