All things marriage

Hello

Do you know what is the best blessing for you?
Your parents are alive and you are living with them.

Do you know what is the best riziq from Allah ?
Your partner.

So many women whining about men all the time. Yet consistently, it’s so obvious that women with D-minus behaviors, and a lack of behavioral maturity to be able to hold even a simple conversation are plentiful here- talking about the “marriage side”. I don’t waste my time talking on the social side.

Oh and the closet racists- the delusional narcissists- yeah you know who you are, looking down on men everywhere and seeking “providers” of excessive luxury out here in the GCC, acting as if it’s perfectly fine to be greedy and projecting your poison on society, you’re not fooling anyone.

FYI- No AI was used for this rant on you pretentious quacks, just some good Ol’ fashioned organic observation.

Iam so board iam keep liking and sending complaints no one is replying to me

Hey

Define it as you see !

Can someone explain why so many men are obsessed with bed talk? They all say they want to get to know you, but the conversation always ends up in the same place. Does anyone actually want a real connection anymore?

My first ever Muzz meetup happened last June... and let's just say it deserves a spot in the "well... that happened" folder. 😂
First plot twist? He lied about his height.
Then came the questions about my car (he was really ticked off that I don't drive big cars like him), my assets, and my monthly income. I genuinely couldn't tell if this was a first date or a financial due diligence session.
He walked so fast I stopped trying to keep up. At one shop, they didn't have what he wanted, so he threw the shopping basket down. I picked it up because I couldn't just stand there while a store assistant dealt with that. He even asked me why I bothered.
When I paid for my own things, he asked why I didn't let him pay and I'm making a drama (I was only line up behind him and said 'its okay you pay first). Well... after spending the day complaining that women only wanted his money, I thought I'd help him keep it. 🤭
Dinner was the loneliest part. I was trying to make conversation while he spent most of the meal on his phone. I ended up people watching instead. If someone gives me their time, I like to be present.
Then came the finale.
"I want someone serious and obedient."
I told him, "I think I need to process today first."
When I asked what he thought of me, his answer was, "You're big like a cow."
I replied, "No... I meant me as a person."
Apparently, what he liked most was that I didn't argue back. Truthfully, I was just exhausted. The constant swearing had already drained me, and even when I politely asked him not to cuss around me, he wasn't happy about it. (I'm a mom so im not comfortable with this cussing culture)
For the record, I'd already told him before we met that I'm curvy, so that wasn't new information. The only surprise was discovering his height had gone through some creative editing. 😅
Ladies, please meet the person before making any big decisions. Texting can never show you how someone treats service staff, handles disappointment, respects your time, or makes you feel.
That one meetup was enough for me to switch off the marriage side of Muzz for a while.
But... it's July now. New month, new hope. Maybe it's time to switch it back on and give it another chance. Wish me luck. 😂

Looking for a genuine connection that leads to a halal marriage. I value faith, honesty, kindness, and mutual respect. Insha'Allah, hoping to build a peaceful and loving family together.