All things marriage

Sisters, the whole “it’s not you, it’s me” or “I don’t have the emotional capacity for a partner right now” after a long build up of mutual emotions and feelings…how often are these situations real and how often are they not?

(Figured I’d give the tax of dealing with topics where women could be the issue so I’m no longer a “simp” 😂 but I am looking for real insight here.)

Abu Hurairah narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:"There are three matters in which seriousness is serious and joking is serious: marriage, divorce, and taking back a wife (after a revocable divorce)."

The Breakdown of the RuleBecause these three contracts and actions are so profound, Islam does not accept "I was just kidding" as an excuse once the words are intentionally uttered.

Marriage (Nikah): If a man and woman intentionally agree to enter a marriage contract, it is legally and religiously binding, even if they claim they were just joking or playing around.

Divorce (Talaq): If a husband clearly pronounces divorce to his wife, it counts. He cannot later claim it was a joke to reverse it.

Taking a wife back
(Raj'ah): If a man takes his wife back during the waiting period after an initial or second divorce, it takes effect. He cannot take his word back later by saying it was a joke.

May Allah guide us & grant us understanding….ameen

"The best love is the one that starts with the pleasure of Allah."🩷🌸🦩

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Naseeb/Qadar Allah/Maktoob (written)

With time you realize, everything is qadar/Naseeb/maktoob in life. No matter how much you try/wait to Marry that specific person/get that specific job/business/degree etc. It'll never happen if it's not written for you! So nabi saw said, take life easy, cause whatever meant to come, it'll come regardless & ask Allah to make your affairs easy for you. As Allah said, you may hate something, which is good for you & you May love something which is bad for you.Allah knows, you know not..........

“You can only get married, when Allah swt wants you to, and you can only marry, when Allah bless it for you and with the person Allah swt written for you” No matter how hard you try or how many proposals come to you, it will only happen when Allah wills with that specific person only. Put your trust in Allah swt alone only Insha'Allah ...keep making lot of dua for affua or easiness in Dunya and Akhira both…keep doing lot of istigfar (astagfirullah) all the time and sadaqah; through istigfar Allah swt opens up rizk for people. Sins blocks rizk. Sadaqa helps us protect from Many calamities in life❤️🤲

it’s all qadar Allah in life. Only Allah knows what is written for who and why. It’s Allah who decides who will marry who, who will be the kids of who, who will be the grand kids of who, who will be born and who will die. Who will live where, when etc. who will have how many wives, sister wives etc. Everything is already written by Allah swt. Nothing will change. So as a Muslim we live one day at a time Alhamdulillah. Everyday we try our best to please Allah swt by following His command and sunnah of our beloved prophet saw. We live for jannah. Not for this temporary Dunya.

May Allah grant us understanding……May Allah help us & make all our affairs easy for us...Ameen Rab Rab

I don’t know why a man ghost a person , at will be moss bettter if he say he is not interested

Always choose a person who gives you respect cuz respect is more important than love ....🤌🏼