All things marriage

If you’re a man with a marriage timeline of 1 year +
Are you straight? How do you talk to a woman for a year whilst keeping it halal.
You could talk regularly for 1-2 months with families involved and get to know someone really well .
3-4 months or max 6–now you’re pushing it.
No amount of talking will guarantee a successful marriage. Just make isthikara and go for it. If it’s not good for you, Allah could stop it within weeks what you can’t even in 2-3 years of talking stages. Ok?
Bye.

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Hello everyone 🤠

Hey Guys, What are your expectations🇲🇦x🇳🇱?

It's been a long time since I last opened Muzz. I was honestly surprised to see so many messages from people wanting to get to know me. Thank you—I truly appreciate it.

A lot of you have messaged me saying, "I love Malay women." Sorry to ruin the fantasy, but I'm actually Siamese-Bidayuh, not Malay.

Right now, I'm working while studying, so that's my main focus. If you're thinking about marriage, I'm sorry, but my heart is closed at the moment. It's not that I can't move on—it's more that I'm afraid. For some people, moving on is easier. For me, it isn't.

What I went through wasn't just heartbreak. It was something that made me fear for my life.

I almost lost my life, and my family was put in danger because of one man's ego. He falsely accused me of being involved with another man. I blocked him because his behavior became completely unreasonable.

After that experience, I no longer want to deal with men like that. Jealousy can make people act irrationally. He knew I was sick, and he also knew I'm not the type of woman who's constantly on her phone. I work, and most of the time I barely have any time to rest.

People call me a workaholic, but honestly, I'm just trying to survive in this economy.

I don't want a clingy man. I don't like men who keep pressuring me to go out or try to push me beyond my boundaries.

If one day I meet someone who feels right for me, I just hope he's responsible, mature, and understands boundaries.

What I dislike the most are men who use religion to impress others but don't actually practice the teachings of Islam. How can you expect respect when you don't even follow the laws that Allah has prescribed?

I want a man who can lead with responsibility, wisdom, and good character—not someone who makes me feel like I have to be the man in the relationship.

I don't mind the age gap. In fact, if he's older, that's even better. Older doesn't always mean better, but I do believe maturity often comes with age. I appreciate a man who understands the responsibilities that come with building a family.

To me, responsibility means being hardworking.

When someone truly understands their responsibilities, I believe they'll naturally become hardworking, trustworthy, reliable, and dependable.

I have a lot more to say, but it's currently 2:58 a.m., and I should probably get some sleep. Maybe I'll continue writing when I remember the rest.

Regards,Fara

When it comes to compability, many people think that is always something to be found. Personally I think it's something to create, to build together.. Means a process.

Finding the one, waiting for the perfect match, I think this is just an idealistic concept. Bcz when it comes to the real life, that "one" you are looking for is someone who is ready to put efforts in the relationship to make it last, is someone who try to understand your perspective & who don't mind making compromises as long as you are doing the same.

That perfect match you are waiting for is someone who makes you feel comfortable & seen, who sees in you all the good qualities & potentials, who has a learning & growth mindset.

Sharing a life together means that two completely strangers decide to be there for esch others no matter what life brings. This view maybe seems romantic or a bit irrealistic, but isn't that kind of genuine human bond We all want to have?
That's why instead of saying "let's see where it goes", we should say "let's try our best to make it work".

So assume good intentions, express yourself, be spontaneous, give time, connect clearly, don't judge or jump to conclusions, don't generalise, don't fear to commit, give trust, open your mind & heart. & God will never abandon you. ✨

Your partner is not your enemy but your friend, & it should be a real good friend. You don't expect from a friend to be perfect, but to be sincere, trustful & compassionate.
Try to learn about human nature, our differences, our psychology, etc, that helps a lot.

We all living in a difficult time. Let's unite & be good to each others & spread love. ✨❤️✨

I need your help settling a very important internal debate

I’ve never really embraced the beard life. I’m usually clean shaven or very closely trimmed, but this is what my “stubble era” looks like.

So…

🪒 Clean shaven?
Or
😎 Stubble?

This one’s purely about aesthetics and personal preference… Let’s keep it light… my razor is waiting patiently for the verdict. 😂

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Bye for now. Uninstalling.

I am a gentleman and a responsible person. I work for a reputable company in Bangladesh. I am looking for a life partner who is kind, sweet, cute, and beautiful in my eyes.
Masud Farazi
01846400415
(What's app,imo & telegram)