All things marriage

Heyy

I met a girl who literally had all the qualities I was looking for. Everything she said was so positive, and she was super hyped—to the point where she kept talking about how excited she was to see what the future held for us.
I drove 370 miles just to meet her. The meetup went really well; she kept mentioning that she was into my mindset more than anything else, and I was 100% transparent and an open book to any question she had.
A few days ago, I suggested she start looking into and exploring my area, because I had already told her I couldn't relocate right now. She was cool with it and I didn't mean we were getting married tomorrow or next week, I just let her know I'm pretty tied up right now. Ever since then, her replies started taking days.
Why is it that when someone claims they're being honest, knows what they want, there's mutual attraction and acceptance, and you're actually trying to move things to a serious level, people start pulling this childish nonsense?! Honestly, I finally get now why casual hookups are so easy these days

Let Silence speak to you about the secrets of the universe.

Is there anyone here who is truly "normal"—someone without a history of trauma or emotional baggage? I am so tired of trying to fix things I didn't break; it just isn't fair. Surely, there is a good person out there whose feelings remain pure. I pray I find that person.

I heard sisters here complain about lustful men,but on the other hand sister don’t wear proper Islamic dress code that completely cover their awrah that might attract negative attention from men who don’t have self control. Please cover your bodies that includes wearing hijab it is a command from Allah in the Quran jazakallah kheir

25 and looking after uni this shiiii is hard

Heey Babe 💞❤,your happiness means everything to me. 😊🌸 I want to spend my life making you smile, wiping away your tears, and reminding you every day just how deeply you are loved. ❤️🌹Thank you for accepting me exactly as I am. 🥹💕 Your unconditional love has given me confidence, hope, and countless reasons to believe in tomorrow. 🌅💖

I always thought this chat restriction this was good. But now I’ve got like 7 matches who reply once or twice a day, and 3 who reply regularly…. I’m basically in golden handcuffs 🫪

I need help. I’m talking to someone for two months. Her sister was low and having suicidal
Thoughts and she (person in
Talking to ) told me that if her sister did anything to herself , even if she was married to me and we had kids she’d kill herself.

I got upset and for half an hour didn’t talk to her. I then told her it was wrong of her but I wanted to be there. I spent hours on the phone asking her to open up and to be there for her and to help her through what her sister was dealing with.

She then has today told me I was not her rock I didn’t support her I put my own emotions first. I was at work and very anxious and didn’t want to lose her. I called her and asked if this is it and she’s leaving she said no she isn’t , and I tried to explain to her how the comment hurt me and shocked me even though I know she would never do it.

I was anxious and I work as a doctor so on my break I told her it’s truly playing onmy mind that I want to talk. She said she’s tired a few times and isn’t int he head space , after trying to apologise to her and tell her how much I truly cared how I after calming down and having space for half an hour truly tried to be there for her. She then started yelling and telling me I’m making the same mistake. She started yelling and swearing at how I don’t respect her boundaries , I started to cry and tell her how hurt I was and how I want to be her rock and how i even rushed home
From work to be there for her and how I truly
Want to support her.

She began to then say you’re doing it again , and I said I’m sorry I realise now, I’ll give you space let me go , she said no you can’t leave the phone when I can hear you’re upset. I told her I wanted to stop making her upset,

She then messaged me today and said she wants space for a few days but she wants me and wants to marry me.

I’m distraught and upset. I’ve constantly constantly been there for her. I used my break to call her , rushed home to talk to her , and I told her it was just that comment that got me.

She isn’t moving on. She now is saying I need to reassure you I’m not leaving when dealing with my sister. I told her don’t worry about us , let me just be there for you, let’s work through this.

I don’t know what to do. I truly don’t.